Are You Ready to Make a Great First Impression?
First dates are daunting enough without worrying about your clothes! Luckily, we’re here to break down some items sure to impress your potential match—and which clothing you can leave at home.
1. High Heels
We know what you’re thinking—aren’t high heels a first-date staple? Not necessarily! A stunning pair of stilettos doesn’t always work out, especially if the date goes well and you spend more time walking than not. Keep them in the closet until the third or fourth date. The most important thing on a first date is that you’re comfortable.
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2. Dirty Shoes
On the other hand, you don’t want to be too comfortable. No good date turns you away for wearing sneakers, but dirty shoes attract the wrong kind of attention. Remember: this is your first impression, so it’s best to dress up a little.
3. Strapless Clothing
There’s nothing wrong with strapless clothing, but it’s best to leave those tops at home for the first date. The last thing you want is an embarrassing mishap at the dinner table—and it’s only worse when you don’t know the person.
4. Suits
Women love a well-dressed man, but full-blown suits are a bit much for a first date. Even fancier locations like wine bars or upscale restaurants call for slick attire without dipping into black-tie affairs. Save that monkey suit for another time!
5. A Full Face of Makeup
Whether you enjoy getting dolled up or letting your face breathe, it’s important to stay true to your comfort on a first date. If you’re not someone who wears makeup every day, don’t don a full face now just to impress your date. Wear whatever makes you happiest.
6. “Funny” T-Shirts
We all love a good graphic tee, but those “funny” ones are probably best at home—at least until you get to know the other person. You don’t really know what someone’s sense of humor is, and you could easily make a bad first impression with the wrong shirt.
7. Uncomfortable Outfits
From tight clothing to baggy ensembles, ditch ill-fitting outfits for comfortable ones! Good dates can last for hours, and you don’t want to constantly readjust at dinner or wish you’d worn something a little lighter.
8. Dirty Clothing
Don’t even think about grabbing something from the hamper. If it requires a smell test, it’s not a good choice for a first date. Never forget that you’re trying to make a good first impression, and people won’t fawn over stuff from the laundry basket.
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9. Shoes You Didn’t Break In
Much like high heels, shoes fresh from the box look great, but they won’t feel great on your feet. Unless you want to spend the night walking around with blisters, break your shoes in before that night on the town.
10. Athletic Wear
Athletic wear is great for the gym—and that’s where it belongs! Printed leggings and mesh shirts don’t really match the vibe of a first date, so leave that stuff at home. Hoodies can easily sit this one out, too.
Don’t worry, you still have plenty of options to choose from! Here’s how you can dress to impress.
1. A Classic Duo
At the end of the day, nothing beats tried-and-true duos. A classic tee with denim. A spring dress with a cardigan. Charming pairs like these not only keep you comfortable, but they also make great, casual outfits.
2. Clothes That Match Your Style
While you want to impress your date, there’s no reason to ignore who you are! Opting for clothes that match your style lets your personality shine through, which is the best part about you. You’ll feel better, you’ll be comfortable, and you’ll be more confident.
3. Red or Black Items
When in doubt, you can’t go wrong with classic colors like red or black. They have a certain appeal about them, and heaven knows they’ve earned a romantic reputation. From show-stopping dresses to sleek dress shirts, there’s no denying the appeal of these suave shades.
4. Classic Denim
Denim is a beloved choice for just about any first date—but it all depends on how you wear it. Dark wash and straight fit? Great options. Overly distressed or super-tight? Probably not. Choose something that fits your style and your body!
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5. Something for the Occasion
You don’t want to show up for drinks in a hoodie. Just like you don’t want to show up for coffee in a blazer. First dates are all about dressing for the occasion, so figure out the best fit once you grab all the details.
6. Modest Jewelry
If you’re looking for a simple way to dress up casual outfits, look no further than modest jewelry. Anything from watches to necklaces can take that simple ensemble to new heights, all without pulling focus or being too loud.
7. Clothes That Make You Confident
Do you have an outfit that makes you feel invincible? Of course, we all do! First dates are a great time to bust out clothing we know we look amazing in. That added touch of confidence comes out in ways you don’t even realize, and it sets the stage for first meetings.
8. Midi Dress
While you want to make a lasting impression, you also want to avoid any unfortunate wardrobe malfunctions. Midi dresses come in all kinds of colors and cuts that match your style—and they’re the perfect length for the occasion. Pair it with booties or a casual sweater to keep comfortable!
9. A Great Jacket
You never know what’s on the horizon, so a good jacket not only matches your outfit but also protects you from chilly nights. Whether it’s a sleek leather jacket or a classic denim one, both work wonders with just about any outfit.
10. Good Shoes
Your date probably isn’t looking at your feet, but that doesn’t mean you can’t dress them up a little! A good pair of shoes makes or breaks an outfit, especially if you’ll be out walking or dancing. Make sure they’re in good condition and don’t wear anything you haven’t before!
