It's the Thought That Counts, Right?
Is your anniversary coming up? You probably don't need us to tell you to put extra thought into what you give your partner. And while there's nothing wrong with treating your partner to something fashion- or beauty-related, not every gift is going to receive the reaction you're hoping for. If you're not careful, some presents can even come across as offensive. With that said, here are 10 anniversary gifts you should probably avoid, and 10 better ones to give.
1. Anti-Aging Cream
Sure, an anti-aging cream could make a great present if your partner asked for one, but gifting one without them mentioning their skin concerns? You might as well be telling them they've got lots of wrinkles. Even if you're simply trying to treat them to an expensive product, they might misinterpret your intention.
2. Clothes That Are the Wrong Size
A nice dress or jacket can make a wonderful present, but buy it two sizes too big (or worse, two sizes too small), and your partner might never speak to you again. Your partner might start wondering whether you actually know their measurements, especially if you've been together for years.
3. A Cheap, Generic Perfume
Fragrance is incredibly personal, so you can't just grab one off the shelf without considering your partner's preferences. You'll only land yourself in hot water if they end up hating the scent! And while there's nothing wrong with choosing affordable fragrances, don't get just any plain one.
4. A Gym Membership
Unless your partner has specifically requested one, a gym membership probably isn't the most romantic anniversary surprise. Even if you have good intentions, such as exercising together, this gift may only make your partner feel as though you're telling them to lose weight.
5. Makeup in Shades They'd Never Wear
That bright blue eyeshadow palette might look incredible in the store, but does your partner actually wear colorful makeup? Similarly, buying an expensive foundation bottle might backfire if it's not their exact shade or it doesn't match their preferred finish. You're better off asking them which exact item they want.
6. A Knockoff Designer Bag
Designer handbags make popular gifts, but give your partner a counterfeit bag, and you'll probably be banished to the couch for the next month. Beyond the questionable quality, it's even worse to mislead your partner. If an authentic piece isn't within your budget, there's nothing wrong with getting a well-made one from a more affordable brand instead.
7. Hair Removal Products
A waxing kit or laser hair removal device might be useful, but again, if your partner didn't ask for one, you're giving them the suggestion that you're unhappy with the way they look. As expensive as these beauty devices are, your efforts will only go to waste if your partner feels insulted by them.
8. Clothes That Reflect Your Style, Not Theirs
Sure, that pair of jeans might look nice, but if they're not in the style your partner usually wears, they're going in the bin. Don't use your anniversary as an opportunity to change your partner's wardrobe! If you're going to get them clothes, pick out ones that actually reflect their preferences.
9. A Last-Minute Gift Card
Nothing says "I wasn't really thinking of you" than a generic gift card. Sure, gift cards don't necessarily make bad presents, but if you didn't even put thought into where your partner shops, don't be surprised if you get the stink eye.
10. A Bargain-Bin Jewelry Set
Not all jewelry is good jewelry! While it's the thought that counts, and you can certainly get well-made sets at a bargain, buying any random odd necklace just because it was heavily discounted isn't romantic. Rather than prioritizing the cheap price tag, you should consider whether your partner will actually love it and wear it.
Now that we've gotten the bad bunch out of the way, you might be asking: what should you gift your partner instead? Well, look no further—we've got 10 better anniversary gift ideas:
1. A Personalized Piece of Jewelry
Bargain jewelry might not send a good message, but personalized pieces will always, always be welcome. For example, you could engrave your anniversary date, initials, or even a short message that only the two of you understand. For an extra thoughtful touch, pick a metal and design that complements what your partner already wears.
2. Their Favorite Luxury Perfume
As mentioned, you don't want to grab any random perfume off the shelf. If there's a signature scent your partner has already been wearing for years, why not surprise them with a fresh bottle? You could even purchase a more convenient size or a matching body lotion to give them something different.
3. A Designer Bag They've Been Eyeing
Has your partner been talking about a particular handbag for months but couldn't justify the price? If you have the budget for it, go ahead and spoil them. Just make sure you pick the exact style, color, and brand they wanted!
4. A Relaxing Spa Experience
Instead of giving your partner yet another beauty product they might already own, treating them to a luxurious spa experience might be a better gift. They deserve to unwind! You could even book a couples' spa day so that you can both enjoy some relaxation on your anniversary.
5. A Custom-Made Outfit
Does your partner love fashion? Instead of gifting them generic clothing, it'll be 10 times more thoughtful to put together a custom dress or a tailored suit that's in a style that suits their preferences. To make sure it's perfect, you can even involve your partner in choosing the fabric and silhouette!
LOGAN WEAVER | @LGNWVR on Unsplash
6. A High-End Makeup Product from Their Wishlist
Beauty enthusiasts often have a running list of products they'd love to try. While we've mentioned that you shouldn't get your partner products they might not wear, if they've been eyeing particular products from their favorite cosmetics brand, don't be afraid to surprise them!
7. A Beautiful Watch
What's better than a bracelet? A well-chosen watch! Whether your partner favors minimalist designs or classic leather straps, there's plenty of room to tailor to their personal style. To make it extra special, have the band or the back of the watch face engraved.
8. A Shopping Trip Together
Sometimes, the most thoughtful gift is simply giving your partner the opportunity to choose exactly what they want. Heck, they might even appreciate you just setting a budget and giving them your card! You can make the occasion even more memorable by reserving a lunch or dinner spot at a restaurant they love afterward.
9. A Luxury Skincare Set They Already Love
If your partner follows a dedicated skincare routine, treat them to premium versions of their favorite products! Plus, it can be extra thoughtful if you show you've paid attention to what they already use and enjoy. Make sure to package everything in a beautiful cosmetic bag or gift box to add that personal touch.
10. An Accessory That Holds Special Memories
Anniversary gifts don't always have to be extravagant. Think back to your first date: what was your partner wearing? Even a pair of earrings that brings back special memories can be extra meaningful, so long as they demonstrate how deeply you remember your shared experiences together.
