20 Things Men Don't Understand That Make Women Take So Long To Get Ready
Getting Ready Involves More Than Getting Dressed
When a woman says she needs time to get ready, their partner might groan, knowing they have to wait much longer than they think is needed. Women aren't just killing time staring into her closet for no reason; the whole getting-ready process involves hair, makeup, skincare, outfit adjustments, accessories, and more! For men who don't quite understand what's taking so long, here are 20 things your girl is doing to look her best for your outing.
1. Washing And Drying Hair Takes Time
A guy's hair might take minutes for it to dry, but women with long or thick hair have to put much more time and effort into it. It takes a while to wash, condition, detangle, and dry, and that's something that some men don't understand. The shower can be quick, but there's a lengthy process that goes into women's hair to make it ready for a night out.
2. Styling Hair Isn't Always Predictable
Getting your hair done is anything but effortless. Most women know that a hairstyle that worked perfectly last week might refuse to cooperate today. Anything from humidity, freshly washed hair, product buildup, or even the way someone slept can affect the final result. It takes time to get it right!
3. Skin Care Products Need To Settle
Before putting on makeup, girls know that the first step should always be to lay down some good skincare. There are a few steps involved, like moisturizer, sunscreen, primer, and other products, but what most men don't know is that they can't all be applied at the same time. You need to give each layer time to absorb!
4. Makeup Has Several Separate Steps
And speaking of several steps, after the skincare prep is ready and you move onto the makeup, there are multiple products you need to use and different layers you need to slowly build up. Everything from foundation, concealer, blush, mascara, and eyeliner might be used, and each of those need to be applied one by one.
5. Eyeliner Requires Concentration
One of the hardest steps during makeup is putting on eyeliner. Because it's so close to your eyes, it's hard to stay steady, and even harder to create two reasonably even lines that are shaped the way you want them to. One small mistake and you may have to make a lot of corrections.
6. Mascara Can Cause Last-Minute Problems
Mascara seems straightforward, and is usually one of the final steps, but the moment it lands on an eyelid or leaves a clump on the lashes, you'll groan realizing you're not quite there yet. Removing the mistake without disturbing the rest of the makeup takes patience.
7. Eyebrows Need To Match Closely
Eyebrows don't have to be perfectly identical, but they should at least look like they belong on the same face. Filling them in involves your full attention and patience; you've got to check the shape, color, thickness, and overall balance.
8. Outfit Choices Depend On The Entire Plan
There's a lot more to picking out an outfit than just throwing something together. Women want to look good for the entire plan, which is why she's probably considering the weather, walking distance, restaurant dress code, seating, photographs, and who else will be attending. The right choice has to work for the whole evening, not just the first five minutes.
9. Clothes Can Fit Differently That Day
Sometimes, an outfit that once fit comfortably and felt right for the day, might no longer give you the same feeling. Maybe it's pinching in an area that makes you feel awkward, or it's wrinkled so you don't want to wear it out. Not to mention, bodies naturally change throughout the day, and certain fabrics can be less forgiving than others.
10. The Right Bra Matters
It's not just what you wear on the outside, a woman's undergarments need thought too. After all, different tops and dresses often require different bras! Straps, necklines, fabric thickness, and back designs can all affect what works underneath an outfit.
11. Shapewear Can Be Complicated
Shapewear isn't always as easy to put on as regular clothing. It'll snatch your body in all the right places, but first, you have to work for it! It may roll, twist, create visible lines, or feel uncomfortable with a particular outfit. Adjusting it properly can take time.
12. Shoes Can Change The Outfit
Even if the clothes have been chosen, you can't forget about the shoes. Men might be used to throwing on whatever sneakers they usually wear, but most women want to pick an attractive pair that matches their outfit and the event. She'll likely be thinking about comfort, height, color, and formality before making the final decision.
13. Accessories Need To Look Intentional
Throwing on accessories without any care can seriously ruin an outfit, which is why women know they have to be intentional with it. Anything from jewelry to belts, scarves, and bags all need to be carefully planned so they match and make the outfit look complete insteady of cluttered.
14. Nail Polish Can Cause Delays
When a woman wants to go all out and really feel her best, she might want to put on some fresh nail polish too so that her fingers are ready to impress. Unfortunately, doing so does take time, not to mention, as it's still drying, can make reaching for keys, putting on clothes and shoes, and just about anything take that much longer.
15. Hair Removal Isn't Instant
Shaving, waxing, or using another hair-removal method adds extra time before getting dressed. Because if certain outfits expose areas that may not have been part of the original plan, you'll need the extra time to groom carefully and properly!
16. Perfume Has To Be Chosen Carefully
Different scents work better for different settings, seasons, and times of day. For instance, a strong fragrance might feel excessive for a small restaurant, while a lighter one may suit the occasion better. Choosing perfume takes a moment because women want to assess the situation thoughtfully.
17. Packing A Handbag Requires Thought
Before heading out, guys often just stuff everything into their pockets, but unfortunately, women's clothes don't offer the same space. That's why handbags are so important, and bringing everything a woman might need, like lipstick, tissues, keys, chargers, and more, take some extra time.
18. Photos Influence The Final Look
Many social events now involve plenty of pictures, whether they're planned or not, and women like looking their best for them. Certain fabrics, colors, and makeup products can look different under bright lighting or camera flashes, so if she really wants to look good, she'll take all of that into account.
19. One Change Can Affect Everything Else
Because everything is so carefully planned to work with one another, changing one element might require you to make other changes too. What first felt like one small adjustment might just end up leading to several new decisions needing to be made.
20. She Wants To Feel Comfortable And Confident
At the end of the day, men should understand that the time and effort put in to pulling together a look isn't to appear attractive to everyone else, but to feel personally comfortable and confident. Girls just want to feel ready to enjoy the whole night at their best!
