Dress for the Occasion
Date nights can be nerve-wracking, and what you wear might have a larger impact than you think. When it comes to a first date, men are usually more observant than you may realize. They subconsciously notice the effort you put into your appearance, how it reflects your personality, and your overall style. With that in mind, here are 10 things to totally avoid on dates, and 10 things to wear instead.
1. Overly Revealing
Men are quick to look down on a woman for wearing too much skin on a first date. It can make them think you are being overconfident or too provocative, rather than focusing on getting to know each other. Only showing one feature off, like shoulders or legs, is probably a good call.
2. Too Trendy
Guys often view a woman negatively if she wears something that is too trendy on a first date. Loud, in-fashion items can seem materialistic or unapproachable. Choosing simple, classic styles makes for a more relaxed, easy look that leaves a good impression.
3. Ditch the Sweats
Men frequently look down on women for wearing sweats or otherwise dressing too casually on a first date. Tank tops, joggers, and sweatpants all look lazy and unmotivated. Even if the date is supposed to be casual, a nice pair of jeans, some flattering trousers, or a dress all reflect effort.
4. Too Much Makeup
Guys don't like to see a girl with too much makeup on the first date because it can feel over the top or inauthentic. Heavy foundation, eyeshadow, and lipstick can make it seem like you're trying too hard or masking your true self. A natural and understated look is usually more attractive, letting your personality shine through.
5. All the Accessories
Men get turned off by women who over-accessorize for a first date. It can come across as cluttered or showy. Put away some of your necklaces, earrings, hats, or other extras. Focus on a few accessories that complement your outfit and don't overwhelm you.
6. Wearing Yellow
Many times, men make first-date outfit judgments based on the colors you wear. Fashion and style experts warn against wearing yellow. In fact, research has revealed yellow to be low on the attractiveness scale.
7. Fishnets
Women receive negative judgments for wearing fishnet or heavily patterned stockings on a first date. It can be chic in certain contexts, but it is always a negative stigma and too over the top for a first date. Classic tights or darker colors worn with a skirt and boots are a bit classier.
8. Too Much Perfume
Guys can smell when girls are over-perfumed on a first date. A heavy scent can be off-putting and overpowering. Strong smells can also distract and make the date less comfortable.
9. Messy Hair
Men will observe hair that is messy or dirty on a first date. Wearing your hair in a dirty or unkempt manner can seem as if you have not made an effort. Oil, knots, or disarray can be distracting and diminish the overall impression.
10. Too Many Brands
Men can pick up on women who wear clothing plastered with obvious brand logos. It can be a turn-off because it's materialistic. Too many logos will make it seem like your style is all about the labels.
Now that we've talked about some of the first date don’ts, here are 10 things you should wear.
1. Be Comfortable
Guys like when you wear comfortable, practical clothes on a first date. It's flattering because they want to be able to move around easily. They also want to feel like they can be themselves around you.
2. Natural Makeup
When going on a first date, most men would like their partner to look natural with her makeup. Use your makeup in a way that enhances your features while still looking natural. Natural-looking makeup will also allow your personality to be the main thing a guy notices about you.
3. Dresses
Dresses are a good choice for a first date because they're feminine, but also show you put effort and style into your appearance. Dresses can show off your assets while still being comfortable and approachable. Whether casual or a bit dressy, dresses can show you care and leave a positive impression.
4. Red or Black
Men are generally attracted to women who wear red or black on a first date. Red is a powerful color that symbolizes love and passion, and it can make men think you're interested in them. Black is also a great choice for a first date because it is slimming, stylish, and sophisticated.
5. Soft and Approachable
Guys are often drawn to clothing that looks soft and comfortable. Materials such as cotton, silk, or cashmere can help you achieve this look. Soft materials also give the impression that you take care of yourself and dress elegantly.
6. Subtle Accessories
Men usually like it when women keep their accessories simple. Stick with only one or two pieces for a first date. A single statement necklace, dainty bracelet, or understated earrings will do the trick.
7. Styled Hair
Men like seeing nicely styled hair on a first date. It's attractive to men, as hair is one of the first things they see. It's noticeable when hair looks healthy, clean, and styled with some intention. It shows effort, which is seen as detail-oriented.
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8. Comfy Shoes
Men notice and like it when a woman wears comfortable shoes on a first date. Comfortable shoes allow for more natural movement and confidence. Stylish yet practical shoes show thoughtfulness and make the date more enjoyable without discomfort.
9. Florals
Men find florals the most attractive first date option because they give off feminine, fresh, and playful vibes. Florals create an outfit that's friendly and fun without being too much. Wearing a flattering floral dress or top adds a bit of quirk and spunk, leaving a great impression.
10. Be Yourself
Men find it appealing when a woman is dressed as her real self on the first date. Wearing clothes that project your true style reveals more about your personality, making you feel comfortable and confident at the same time. It is best to go for outfits that are a natural representation of yourself, be it your favorite color, signature accessory, or favorite shoes.
