It's All in the Styling
Women want a gentleman, but good behavior only takes you so far. Women also want men who know how to dress and groom, who smell good, who have good taste. Of course, that doesn't mean you need a closet full of expensive labels to form a good impression, but your personal style should nonetheless be memorable. From rolled sleeves to a well-tailored jacket, these 20 styling decisions can make a man instantly go from a one to a 10.
1. A Well-Tailored Blazer
Don't underestimate a blazer that actually fits properly—it can instantly elevate any outfit. Women tend to notice when a man has taken the extra step to make sure his clothes are tailored to him because it signals that he cares about how he presents himself to others.
2. Rolled-Up Sleeves
Rolling your sleeves up might sound like such a small thing, but it draws attention to your forearms, and that subtle flash of skin and muscle can do a lot more than you think. It works especially well with a crisp button-up shirt; the key word here is crisp, as you don't want to show up a wrinkled mess.
3. A Well-Fitted Pair of Jeans
Jeans that are too baggy or too tight can throw off your whole look, so find a pair that fits through the waist and tapers nicely at the ankles instead. Just like a tailored blazer, the right pair of jeans suggests you've put thought into your wardrobe.
4. A Leather Jacket
There's something about a leather jacket that just adds an edge to even the most basic outfit. Maybe it's the bad-boy vibes it gives off, or maybe because it looks effortless but still grungy, chic. Of course, it doesn't have to be an expensive piece, but you do want to make sure you find good-quality faux leather.
5. Color That Complements Your Skin Tone
Wearing colors that actually flatter your complexion makes a big difference. Mess your palette up, and you might look washed out or tired. So, how do you do it? If you have golden or olive undertones, go for warmer tones; cooler colors often flatter those with pink or neutral undertones.
6. A Structured Denim Jacket
Don't have a leather jacket? That's okay; a denim jacket with a bit of structure will do, too. Plus, it works great between seasons and pairs well with almost anything. Women often gravitate toward men in denim, too, probably because it strikes a balance between casual and intentional.
7. A Statement Watch
Sure, you can tell the time with your phone or a fitness watch, but an actual watch is what the ladies look for. Again, you don't need to spend serious cash on a Rolex, but it should match your personality and style. Make sure to roll up your sleeves to show off your wrist!
8. Boots Instead of Sneakers
You might love your sneakers, but for a date or a night out, swap them out for boots. Whether it's a pair of Chelsea boots or a clean leather pair, they'll instantly give your outfit some versatility. This switch also tells women that you know how to dress for the occasion.
9. A Fitted Crewneck Sweater
Just like a tailored blazer, make sure to opt for a fitted crewneck sweater during the colder seasons; you don't want to wear one that swallows your shape. As for colors, neutral tones like navy, charcoal, or camel tend to work best, since they're easy to layer and easy on the eyes.
10. A Signature Scarf
Think scarves are only for women? Think again. Adding a scarf to your outfit actually shows a level of styling awareness that most men skip. Even a simple wool scarf can do wonders for pulling an outfit together! Women, too, will appreciate this kind of fashion detail.
11. A Pop of Unexpected Color
We mentioned sticking to neutrals, but if we had to be honest, adding one unexpected color to your outfit also shows confidence and personality. Moreover, it gives women something to notice and remember. Of course, you don't need to show up wearing bright pink; just make sure it fits well with the rest of your outfit.
12. Layering with Purpose
Rather than just piling clothes on for warmth, smart layering is a whole different beast. When done right, it makes your outfit look far more stylish and intentional. Here's an example you could follow: start with a button-up under a sweater, then top it with a structured jacket. Voilà.
13. A Well-Chosen Belt
Make sure you choose the right belt as well! It's easy to stick with the same one every day, but the wrong one can clash with your entire outfit. A good rule of thumb is to match your belt with your shoes. And, if you can, choose a quality leather belt.
14. Textured Fabrics
More than just paying attention to how you're layering, you should also mix in fabrics with texture, like corduroy, tweed, or waffle-knit material. These provide visual interest to an outfit that flat, smooth fabrics can't. You'll quickly notice that women are drawn to outfits that have some depth to them.
15. A Tailored Overcoat
We've talked about blazers, but an overcoat is different. For one, it's considerably longer, and the length alone could make or break your entire look. This kind of outerwear choice often gets noticed before anything else, so make sure you pick the right one.
16. Sunglasses That Suit Your Face Shape
Sunny out? Choose a pair of sunnies that complement your face shape; you'd be surprised at the difference in how put-together you look. Keep in mind that aviators, wayfarers, and round frames all suit different face shapes, so it's worth figuring out which one works best for you.
17. A Quality Backpack or Bag
Women don't have to be the only ones carrying purses around. In fact, there's appeal to men carrying a well-made backpack or messenger bag. Leather or waxed canvas options tend to look particularly refined, especially when paired with business casual outfits.
18. Monochromatic Outfits
If you're not a fan of neutrals or adding a pop of color, try building an outfit around a single color family. This helps create a sleek and cohesive look that's honestly a lot harder to pull off than it sounds. This approach works particularly well with darker tones, so stick to shades like charcoal, navy, or forest green.
19. A Classic Field Jacket
A field jacket, with its utilitarian pockets and structured shape, can add a rugged look to a casual outfit. It works well over a hoodie or a simple crewneck, too, which means it's perfect for layering. There's a reason this piece has stuck around for decades, after all.
20. Confident Accessorizing
You don't just have to stick to wearing watches. Go ahead and experiment! Women like men who accessorize when it's done right, so try donning rings, bracelets, or even pins over your clothes. Make sure not to go overboard, though—less is always more.
