20 Style Choices That Make You Look Like You Have Your Life Together
Looking The Part Is The First Step
Feel like a hot mess? You don't have to look like one. Looking put together while you're dealing with the chaos that is your life, you can trick the world into thinking you're in control. Certain small style tweaks, accessories, and wardrobe choices can powerfully convey that you're a person who is prepared, thoughtful, and like you have it all together. It's not about spending a lot of money or chasing trends; it's about mastering the small details, accessorizing, and having a less-is-more approach. Here are 20 essential style tips for looking like you have it all together even when you really, really don't.
1. A Watch
A classic watch is the perfect accessory for looking like you actually show up on time to things. It's a timeless, elegant accessory.
2. Blazers
You don't have to go full suit. A well-fitted blazer, even matched with jeans or other more casual attire, can elevate an outfit and make you look like a go-getter.
3. Bob Haircut
There's a reason snooty "Karens" have bob haircuts. A well-maintained bob is a stylish do that makes you look like you run the show.
4. Cardigans
Cardigans give off "librarian" vibes, which isn't a bad thing if you're trying to look a bit more polished. Go for a well-fitted one as opposed to a frumpy "dude" cardigan.
5. Well-Tailored Clothing
There's something about clothing that fits immaculately that makes you look like you have your life together. You don't have to spend a lot of money: even pieces that you picked up at a thrift store can look like a million dollars if you get them professionally tailored.
6. Classic Trench Coats
When putting together your perfect polished look, don't forget about outerwear. Keep it classy with a beautiful trench coat as opposed to a sporty windbreaker.
7. Minimalist Jewelry
Even a simple T-shirt with jeans can look chic with the right jewelry. While one louder accent piece can fit in well, too many big ones can look gaudy, so opt for simple, understated pieces.
8. Well-Groomed Facial Hair
Nothing says "I don't know what I'm doing with my life" like an unkempt beard. Investing time in the morning to shave or trim it will leave you looking fresh and well-manicured.
9. Timeless Styles
For a sophisticated look, avoid the trends and opt for timeless classics. Items like little black dresses, well-fitted jeans, and white button-downs fit the bill.
10. High-Quality Basics
If you're going to invest in something, make it your basics like your jeans, plain T-shirts, and shoes. These are the fundamental wardrobe staples that are the foundation of any wardrobe, so don't cheap out. High-quality pieces will last longer and look better.
11. Clean Shoes
When it comes to dressing with class, start from the bottom. Scuffed shoes, as opposed to clean and polished ones, can undermine all your other efforts.
12. Natural But Structured Makeup
If you want to look professional and polished, leave the colorful highlighter, eyeshadow, and bright lipstick for another day. You want your face to look natural but structured, so matte foundation, simple contouring, and neutral lips are the way to go.
Thanh Xuan Nguyen Ly on Pexels
13. Defined Brows
Eyebrows frame the whole face, so don't forget to give them a little love. While bushy, unkempt brows can make you look messy, defined, sharp ones look fierce and powerful.
14. Hoop Earrings
It's easy to overdo it when it comes to earwear, as many people like to express themselves loudly with it. However, when putting together your polished look, simple hoops that aren't too big are the perfect option.
15. A Statement Ring
If you're tired of all this minimalism and want to incorporate a statement piece of jewelry, go for a ring. Because of their location on the hand as opposed to near the face, you can get away with a little more flair and maximalism.
16. Manicure Your Nails
Treat yourself to a manicure, but not one that entails four-inch-long nails in neon colors. Simple French tips or pastel colors can immediately make you look classy and put-together.
17. Steam or Iron Your Clothes
Nothing says hot mess like wrinkled clothing, even if it's a great brand or the highest quality fabric. Take a minute before you put an item of clothing on to ensure it's wrinkle-free.
18. Choose High-Quality Natural Fabrics
Just like with food ingredients, if you've never heard of the materials listed on the tag or can't pronounce them, you shouldn't buy them. Natural fabrics like cotton, silk, linen, and wool last the longest and always look sharp.
19. Select Well-Fitted Eyeglasses
If you wear glasses, put in the time and effort to choose the right frame for your face. The right glasses can elevate your whole look.
20. A Structured Handbag
Slouchy bags and totes may be in style, but they don't exactly lend themselves well to a classy, polished look. A structured handbag is one that keeps its shape. It's the perfect, timeless accessory for a classic look.
